Monday, February 03, 2014

Wedding woes - Being one's own

Marriage is most beautiful (and tolerable) when you can be your own thoughts despite a surrender of sorts.
And thats the hardest to get to, though its about you, its the other that can make it happen, if at all.
While love and lust can ignite, its after all both the heads and hearts that step on it.

Rhaea: 8 years, Getting there... taking the ride, starting to love even the fuel stops, What say mr.R? :)

And did I mean the world to know - yes.
Did I not mean you to hear - no! It was a gesture, thought of as classically romantic. Else why would someone pop "Will you marry me" on a flying marquee up in the sky?! As if asking itself isnt stupid enough ;)

Sunday, September 11, 2011

I am your mom, sunny!

So my almost-4-month old looks at me
thanks for the la-la tap-tap, hey silly woman
And I am like
I am no singer
I am no dancer
I am not a clown
I am your mom!
Of course I am all that and more
BECAUSE... I am your mom!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Non Entity is Unkown and Exists

He: Why are you comparing yourselves with another woman?
Rhaea: Well I am not, but I am guessing your expectations of a woman, and maybe another
He: I dont and cant think of another in your place
Rhaea: Had I not met you, then?
He: It is now a non-entity
Rhaea: But had you not met me, you would have met that non-entity?
He: Yes, so there is someone out there. That non-entity exists!
Rhaea: :)
Rhaea's Dad: Non-Entity is nothing but Unknown; When you know it, it is an Entity; 0 gets its meaning because of the existance of 1; 0 & 1 become relevant because of the presence of something beyond it - "2"!
Rhaea: Am I now "0", "1" or "2"!!!
He: (smiles)
Rhaea (thinks): Even Silence, Smile and Subtlety can be as good a statement, as a statement itself!

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Wake Up to MTR's Upma

Food for thought (this time, Food with calories, taste, look and feel - not Bach's quotes or rand's ravings)

Upma is a simple South Indian dish made of semollina/rava/suji, sauted with mustard seeds, asafoetida, curry leaves, green chillies and onions. It is known to be a quick fix dish when sudden guests show up at your doorstep (which did happen a lot in 10-yrs-back-India and does still but lesser)

Upma became synonymous with anything quick-fix, at least in the southern indian slang. Again if you are living my age and have a tamil connection you may remember the Mamootty starrer "Azhagan" where he is a hotel business man risen from scratch and called to preside over a dance performance. He begins with "Naan upma maari" = "I am like Upma" - as he would have actually been invited as a quick replacement for the original chief guest who wasnt gonna make it!

That being a little bit of insight into the simple yet fun dish that is Upma, today, a saturday and my trusted and lovely cook absconding, i decided to make something to feed ourselves - chanced upon this MTR Ready to cook Upma! Ah what a relief from Bread omlette and i loved me more for stocking it.


I am not trying to review this little one. But I think this is one good snack / breakfast item that you may want to stock for those rush hours.Not that there are many more ;)
For Rs.7/- the 90g pack serves 2 light-eaters (good enough if served with ghee and sides, taken with some juice/fruit/coffee)You just need to boil twice the quantity (as the mix you are using) of water, with ghee/oil, mix it in and cook in low flame for 5-7 mins. Voila - breakfast ready!!!
Nutritional facts Per 100g:

  • Calories - 411
  • Protein - 9g
  • Carb - 69g
  • Sugars - 1g
  • Fat - 11g
  • Fibre - 0.4g
  • Sat Fat - 8.6g
  • Monounsat fat - 0.2g
  • Polyunsat fat - 0.08g
  • Trans fat - 0g
  • Calcium - 29mg
  • Iron - 2mg
  • Sodium - 1.3g
  • Vit A - 105micg
  • Vitc C - 2mg

One tablespoon of ghee (for 90g) added when boiling would help the dish not to stick on the vessel.1tbsp of ghee = approx 15-20g has about 130-180 cals and 15-20g of fat.
Sides that go best with it: Coconut chutney, Onion/Tomato chutney, Pickle, Yogurt, even just sugar!



This is one serving that is giving me about 300-350 cals (half of the full packet + half of 1.5 tbsp of ghee) I had it with sugar, my childhood habit, piling on some 30 unnecessary calories :p But it was a happy Saturday morning breakfast!
Enjoy if you happen to try it!

Andh-a-aadi

After a hiatus!
Am I happy :)

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

O my Golden fried Onions...

Golden Fried Onions...
O thy place doth all see?
U r like the shiny sculpted body
Borne by the bold and the beautiful lady!
Slim n slender Cut
Golden n Crispy Yet Soft n Sexy
Fried to be just that!
U smell just like her
waiting to be devoured...
Sweet and full
Sharp and mmm Tasty!
Rolled up in a bed of Oil
as Soft as those thin clean satin
How shall I let you slip?

O my Golden fried Onions...
Thy place many tend not to see!

No Wife :(

Unfortunately or Fortunately I do not have a wife.
A wife to make my house 'home' for me;
fill my stomach,
reach my brains,
lick my bod
and spoil my mind!

'order' things :)
or just let me lay around
and rot on my couch.
So there...

BUT..

Well, I have a husband ;)

:-p Anddd...he has a wife like above!!! ;)